Well, we are trying to work our way back to "normal" around here. First and Only Husband went back to work yesterday. Can I say that I can't wait until the day we are independently wealthy and he can stay home all the time? ;-) He was able to take a two week vacation and we all just love having him here with us. He really balances me out. I have a tendency to get caught up in the tasks that I see all around me and he helps me to chill out a little. Wasn't it Erma Bombeck who said, "Housework done correctly can kill you?" If it wasn't for my Husband, I would have been dead long ago. LoL
I've felt a bit disconnected with the older kids. It seems I spend all day nursing Second Daughter. I feed her four or five times during the day when they're up and about and it takes between 30 minutes to an hour to feed her. That's a huge chunk of time that I'm not spending with them, so I finally came up with a way to connect with them while nursing. I have made a date with each of them during the day while I'm nursing and we go into my bedroom and read a book together. I love it, and they love it. At breakfast they take dibs on which nursing session they want to go with me to read our book. That one-on-one time is great for all of us! :-)
I spent many hours reading to my son after my daughter was born. It was a time I knew I wouldn't be going anywhere, enjoy those precious moments!
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